Lucky me — Happy Birthday, Pater

This good-looking guy has a birthday today, so I’m leaving our island home where there’s a breeze off the water and I can swim to cool off (I went in twice yesterday — it was glorious!) to brave the city heat and take him for dinner with our daughter and her guy.

Last year, walking to the village near the wonderful Quinta Moenda in rural Portugal, he said I should take a picture to remember how happy we were. It’s not a flattering photo of me, but I remember the warmth of the sun and of our luck in love.

I’ve had decades with this man. I’ve enjoyed them all and look forward to several more. Since his last birthday, we’ve become grandparents, and now I’ll get to know him all over again through a fresh pair of eyes. Here’s a photo I snapped last weekend when Nola couldn’t stop looking at her Granddad — especially when he delivered the “secret” whistle he’d devised to help her get over making strange at him. If she could talk, I’m sure she’d join me in wishing him a very “Happy Birthday”!

So Happy Birthday, my dear, and may there be many, many more!

12 Comments

  1. girlcook
    29 July 2009 / 5:05 pm

    YAY!!!
    Happy birthday to the best dad.
    generous, patient and encouraging.
    I love you so much

  2. indigo16
    29 July 2009 / 5:06 pm

    Yeah, A BIG happy birthday from me too, he is a slice of highbrow civilisation when compared to my neanderthal!

  3. Susan B
    29 July 2009 / 5:23 pm

    We very much enjoyed meeting Pater, and would like to join in wishing him a Happy Birthday!

  4. jillian
    29 July 2009 / 6:39 pm

    Happy, happy, happiest day, Pater!

  5. Patricia
    29 July 2009 / 9:40 pm

    LOVELY post! Happy happy birthday to Pater! Patricia

  6. Duchesse
    30 July 2009 / 12:23 am

    Falling in love is dazzling, but staying in love is even better. May you have many more years together.

  7. Unknown
    30 July 2009 / 3:06 am

    Oh cool! Send him my Happy Birthday to him. =D Have a great day ahead. Enjoy! =d

    Solo
    Travel and Living
    Job Hunt Pinoy

  8. La Belette Rouge
    30 July 2009 / 5:16 am

    Happy Birthday to Pater!!!! So happy he was born as he clearly makes you so happy( and vice-versa).

  9. Imogen Lamport, AICI CIP
    30 July 2009 / 5:33 am

    Happy Birthday to Peter. I'm glad you are so happy together after such a long time!

  10. Alison Watt
    30 July 2009 / 5:43 am

    happy, happy, happy birthday to P. What a lovely and touching post.

  11. materfamilias
    30 July 2009 / 2:09 pm

    Thanks all!

  12. Zach
    30 July 2009 / 9:27 pm

    Yeah!
    Looking good. Happy Birthday again!

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